Meghan Markle's Birthday Message Blows Up (But Not In a Good Way)
The Duchess of Sussex's 44th birthday message, posted by her own lifestyle brand, reignites criticism over self-promotion and deepens public skepticism.
Meghan Markle marked her 44th birthday this week. But, instead of warm wishes or royal fanfare, the Duchess of Sussex found herself at the center of yet another controversy, one she appears to have ignited herself.
A black-and-white image of Meghan in a dark dress and fedora, posted by her lifestyle brand As Ever to its Instagram page (which has over 800,000 followers), featured the caption:
“Celebrating the woman behind it all. She gives her heart, vision, and magic to every detail, and today we raise a glass to her. Happy Birthday to our founder!”
The post, intended as a birthday tribute, quickly descended into a digital storm. Critics and royal watchers accused Meghan of orchestrating an elaborate display of self-congratulation, branding the move narcissistic and tone-deaf. Social media exploded with biting sarcasm and mockery, another blow to a public figure who continues to polarize opinion.
Deafening Royal Silence
What further fueled the backlash was the notable silence from the British royal family. King Charles, Queen Camilla, Prince William, and Princess Kate offered no public birthday wishes. A few celebrities did post greetings, but the absence of royal acknowledgment stood out and amplified Meghan’s perceived isolation.
“The contrast between her self-celebration and the palace’s silence was jarring,” one royal commentator noted.
Social Media Turns on Meghan
Among the harshest reactions online: “Exactly what we expected: she’s wishing herself a happy birthday because there is no ‘team’ behind As Ever. It’s 100% Meghan talking about Meghan. Embarrassing.” Others piled on with: “The woman behind all the failures?” and “She wakes up every morning and kisses her reflection in the mirror.”
The uproar echoes broader public fatigue with what critics describe as Markle’s relentless quest for relevance. Despite repeated attempts to frame herself as a symbol of female empowerment, detractors argue that her messaging lacks substance and authenticity, more branding than belief.
A Branding Crisis
The backlash comes amid what some analysts call a “reputation freefall.” Meghan’s lifestyle brand has struggled to gain traction since its launch, and her $100 million Netflix deal is reportedly under internal review. A prior promotional video, posted to mark daughter Lilibet’s birthday and featuring Meghan dancing in a hospital room before giving birth, was widely mocked as bizarre and damaging to her credibility.
Observers point to an ongoing identity crisis: Is Meghan a duchess, a media mogul, a lifestyle guru, or something in between? The brand’s inconsistency, critics say, reflects deeper issues with her public image and personal narrative.
The Takeaway
For many, the birthday tribute wasn’t just a misstep, it was a mirror reflecting Markle’s broader challenges. “Behind the polished photos and poetic captions,” one commenter wrote, “is a desperate search for attention, even if it means throwing yourself a party online.”
As she continues to push her image as an empowered entrepreneur, Meghan may be facing her most persistent obstacle yet: public perception.